istikhara for marriage

Istikhara for marriage | online solutions

These days the most common type of istikhara which is performed by people is the marriage istikhara .The google search results and queries also show the trend towards istikarah for marriage.The main reason for this is the increasing number of divorce cases.As I have explained in the post related dua e istikharah that the act of istikharah shall be conducted in the serious matters of life which have a long-term impact on a person’s life.Marriage is a beautiful relationship .It is a long-term lifetime commitment between two individuals weaved together by the bond of marriage.This lifetime bond of care and love is comfort and pleasure for life and is a gift of god but it becomes a nightmare if both the partners are unable to adjust with each other due to any reason.
This is why there is a need and importance of istikhara for marriage to avoid the risk of breakup and divorce. There are a lot of istikhara online services looting innocent people by claiming to be istikharah expert which will be highlighted further.

Dua e istikhara for marriage:

AS said by our beloved prophet seek the guidance of almighty Allah ”creator of the universe and all knowing” before you make any important decisions in your life.istikhara for marriage is done when one has to decide whether his/her selection for marriage will be suitable or not as the marriages in Islamic community are arranged .Istikhara has an equal value if it’s a arranged marriage or a love marriage.

The best practice for doing istikhara is by dua e istikharah for marriage .To perform the act of ”dua e istikhara” one shall understand its meaning that the basic component is dua which means to ask Allah for something which one can’t achieve with his/her efforts and needs the help of his creator .The proper way of dua is to first recite the biggest names of Allah proving his nobleness and then ask for his help .The istikharah for marriage shall be performed in the following manner:

1. Select a quiet place where no one disturbs you.
2.Burn a sweet incense suiting your mood making you relax.
3.Make a fresh wudu or take a cleansing bath.
4.Say two Rakat of nafal prayer .
5.After the salat sit in the same position and close your eyes.
6.Concentrate on the feelings and your thoughts.

Dua istikhara marriage Arabic

”اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُالْغُيُوبِ ، فَإِنْ رَأَيْتَ أَنَّ فِي فُلَانَةِ خَيْرَاً لِي فِي دِينِي وَدُنْيَايَ وَآخِرَتِي فَاقْدُرْهَا لِي وَإِنْ كَانَ غَيْرُهَا خَيْرٌ مِنْهَا لِي فِي دِينِي وَآخِرَتِي فَاقْدُرْهَا لِي

As soon as you achieve the state of deep concentration and subconscious mind you will find the answer and guidance from Allah finding the answer to your question.

 

Istikhara Methods | Types Of Istikhara

According to Quran and sunnah only proven method of istikhara which was performed by our phophet (p.b.u.h) is of salat al istikhara followed by dua e istikharah .As the time passed different methods were invented by scholars by themselves and are explained in details:

 

1.Quranic istikhara for marriage

This is the modern way of performing istikharah in which a person first has to say 2 nafals and then recite surah fathia in the following manner:

.2 rakat nafals
.11 times durood sharif
.7 times surah fathia
.11 times surah nashra

Now keeping your question in mind open the Quran from anywhere and read through the page that opens in front and you will get the answer for your question directly or indirectly .

2.roohani istikharah for marriage

Roohani istikhara is the form of higher concentration and imagination in which a person develops a spiritual power to seek the future by performing mind exercises recitation mantras or tantric yoga practices.

 

3.Noorani istikhara for marriage

Noori istikhara is performed by mawakals so called by people doing istikhara but in fact this is the power of verses of Qur’an or any name of ”Allah” which is repeated by the istikhara specialist repeatedly in the form of dua wazifa to get the spiritual powers of the verse so he can use it to find the answers to the questions with spiritual guidance .To obtain this power he performs the wazifa in the following manner:

. 101 times durood Ibrahim
. 41 times surah shams
. 41 times surah lail
. 41 times surah was zuha
. 101 times durood

This wazifa for istikhara has to be recited for 40 days in order to get its complete spiritual powers and if one day is skipped it would not work .So it shall be done with responsibility till completion.

 

4.Istikhara by taweez for marriage

This is another spiritual method invented by the scholars and is used to do the act of istkharah .The person first has to write the taweez given below for 41 times daily and throw it in running clean water lake or river.When the process is complete the taweez can be given to anyone so he/she shall see his answer to the query in a dream.

taweez istikhara

This tawiz has to be written 41 times till 41 days to achieve the power for performing the above purpose.

 

5.istikhara namaz marriage

The term namaz refers to the art of praying to Allah in Muslim belief and our prophet (p.b.u.h) was given the gift of namaz when he visited Allah Subhan talla on mirage.In namza a Muslim performing it is in direct contact with his god and gets his attention.The namaz is a must for a Muslim to pray 5 times a day,but it can also be performed for a specific need like istikhara .Then dua e istikhara is performed to complete the process.

 

Istikhara online | Free Istikhara marriage services

Free online istikhara services are to be considered ok if they are providing the services in free and the one who is performing the istikhara shall be an alim or a scholar with the good reputation .The services charging people for online istikhara are fake and fraud.These people  are who further guide people into troubles by misleading them with their fake predictions .These people know all the tactics for cheating innocent people and getting money out from their pocket.

In this article, all the ways of performing istikhara for marriage are described in detail step by step so people can do it by their self and be aware of istikhara online fake services.

 

Dua e istikhara | istikhara complete introduction

Istikhara | Meaning Istikhara

There are a lot of people who wants to perform istikhara successfully but are unaware of the true meaning and the correct ways of performing it.So this article is written to help people with understanding the term istikhara properly and in detail so they can be successful in their effort while performing dua e istikhara .The word istikharah means to take guidance in some matter of life in a spiritual manner seeking advice and help from ”Allah”.The basic concept of this act is that one performing istikhara believes that “Allah” is the superior god who created him and knows about the future of everything ,so the person is looking for guidance on some specific matter in his/her life that whether that action will be good for him or it shall not be done. The practice of istikhara is proven from Muslim religion and practised by Muslims for getting help from god for future decisions.In other religions and beliefs ,similar practices like horoscope tarot and palm reading are used.

Istikhara is a proven technique from Quran and hadith to get help and guidance from god in the matters of life . So one can avoid any bad impacts of his action he is unaware of.The prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h) used to perform the act of istikhara in important matters or decisions in his life so it is now followed by the Muslim community.The proper way of doing this has been done by our prophet and is described in the hadith and shall be done in the same manner.As the time passed a lot of other ways of doing istikharah were invented by people which will be discussed in future posts,but the proper and most authentic way is to follow the way our belove prophet did it.

 

Why perform istikhara

Now an important question arises , why to perform the act of istikharah? Is is necessary ?

The answer is yes and no, istikhara is meant to avoid possible losses by taking a specific decision in life and shall be performed in sensitive matters of life to the effect of the actions which can’t be reversed.There is no need to perform this act is normal decisions of life and it does not mean that you only count on istikhara leaving your common sense behind.A person conducting an istikharah shall also see all the aspect of his actions with open eyes and his past experiences and calculate all the necessary impacts of his actions.Now once he has calculated that then he/she shall perform the spiritual act of istikharah ,so he could get to a solid conclusion whether to do it or not.Then once he has made a decision he/she shall put the best efforts and available resources with a true will in order to achieve success in his purpose

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When To Perform Istikhara?

Istikharah can be performed for any important decision as i have mentioned earlier but it’s recommended that you shall perform the act before making any decisions on the following occasions :

1. Selecting your marriage partner

2.Important educational careers decision

3.Decision for starting a new business

4.interest love marriage decision

5.Buying a new house

6.Selling a property

7.Agriculture activity

8.Purchasing any kind of assets

9.Making an important contract

10.Giving a loan to someone.

All these matters are sensitive and the outcome of the results can affect your life in long-term , so it is highly recommended to perform istikharah for these serious matters.

istikhara

 

How to perform istikhara

There is a great need to understand that what is the proper way of performing this art as nowadays different kind of new methods and techniques have been introduced which by which people are misled to do such activities which have nothing to do with istikhara in reality.A big misunderstanding in the Muslim community about this act is that they think that they will read the dua e istikharah and sleep afterwards.They believe that some angle or god himself will guide them in their dreams about the situation but unfortunately they don’t know that dreams are of three types

1. By god for a Muslim

2. By Satan For Deceiving

3. Thoughts of the mind

So how can one predict that what he/she has seen in the dream was a sign from god ,this is misleading people and Islamic scholars are misguiding people.The other thing which i would like to highlight is that a person can only do istikhara for himself.Nowadays Muslim scholars are looting people by charging huge amount of money from them by claiming istikhara online services .

 

 

Proper way and Reality of istikhara

The proper way of istikhara is very simple and easy to perform by every Muslim at any time he seeks for Allah’s help .The procedure is that if someone wants to know whether he shall perform a specific act or will his action will be favourable or not then he/she shall say 2 0r 6 nafal namaz for the purpose of istikharah and then read the following dua which is stated in both Arabic and English below and seek for guidance with eyes closed and notice the feeling of his/her heart and pray to god that if the decision which had to be made ,is good in his favour then it shall happen otherwise it shall not be done by will.So you see its very simple you don’t have to go to any scholar or get fooled by istikhara online services.

 

Due e istikhara ( Arabic )

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ ارْضِنِي بِهِ

 

‘Allahumma inni Asta khi Ruka bi il Mika, Wa Asta QD Iruka bi-quadratic, Wa asaluka min fadlika al-‘azim Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala Qadir, Wa ta’lamu Wala a’lamu, Wa anta ‘allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta’lam anna hadha-l-amra (then the person reciting the du’a should mention the matter for which he is seeking Allah’s Guidance)   Khairun li fi dini wa Masashi Wa Aqib ATi are (or ‘ajili amri wa’ajilihi) Faquir li was yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta’lamu anna hadha-lamra shar-run li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati  Fairish anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li al-khaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi.‘’

 

Dua e istikhara (English)

 

”(O Allah! I ask direction from Your insight, And Power from Your Might and I request Your incredible endowments. You are competent and I am most certainly not. You know and I don’t and You know the concealed.O Allah! On the off chance that You realize that this occupation is useful for my religion and my subsistence and in my Hereafter–(or said: If it is better for my present and later needs)–Then You appoint it for me and make it simple for me to get, And then favor me in it, and on the off chance that You realize that this employment is destructive to me In my religion and subsistence and in the Hereafter–(or said: If it is more terrible for my present and later needs)–Then keep it far from me and let me be far from it. Furthermore, appoint for me whatever is beneficial for me, And make me fulfilled by it). The Prophet included that then the individual ought to name (specify) his need.”

 

Tips & Precautions | Istikhara

1.Always make a fresh wudu.

2.Say Two Nafals.

3.Learn Dua e istikhara by heart.

4.Select a clean place.

5.Perform a cleansing ritual or dua before starting.

6.Dua with faith in god.

7.Be aware of fraud online istikhara services.

8.Do not pay money to Muslim scholars pretending to be istikhara specialist.

9.Never give your picture name and details to these people.

 

All the facts about Dua e istikhara istikhara have been disclosed and described in detail to help people understand the reality and use of istikhara. dua e istikhara has been mentioned in istikhara Arabic and istikhara  English both versions so one can perform istikhara by him/herself and be aware of scam fraud istikhara online services.